Beyond physical assistance, every human being needs five things to keep wanting to live:
Autonomy – the ability to make choices, even small ones.
Purpose – feeling useful and needed.
Genuine connection – not just people nearby, but people who truly know them.
Continuity – familiar spaces, routines, and objects that link them to their past.
Dignity – being treated as an adult, not as a helpless child.
A facility may care for the body—but too often, it leaves the spirit neglected.
The options few people talk about
Before making an irreversible decision, it’s important to know that alternatives exist:
Supported home care
A caregiver visiting for a few hours a day can provide help without taking away independence.
Multigenerational living
Adapting a home so an older adult has their own space while staying close to family.
Shared housing for seniors
Small groups living together with support, allowing for a more natural daily life.
Day centers
Care and activities during the day, with the comfort of returning home at night.
Often, these options cost the same—or even less—than a nursing home, while offering far better quality of life.
How to make a fair choice
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