Before deciding, ask yourself:

• What can this person truly no longer do alone?
• What can they still do?
• What do they want?
• What resources exist in your community?
• What simple changes could make their home safer?

And most importantly: include them in the decision.
They are not an object to be moved—they are a person with a voice, a past, and feelings.

Final thoughts

• Don’t decide out of exhaustion or fear.
• Speak honestly and respectfully with your loved one.
• Explore every available option.
• Share responsibility with other family members.
• Always choose dignity over convenience.
• Because more security does not always mean a better life.